Gossip

Over the past year since moving to New York with my husband, I have taught in a couple of schools. I have learned a lot, but one of the most powerful lessons I have learned has nothing to do with teaching art or effective pedagogy practices. It has to do with a common practice that teachers use to "get ahead" in their careers: gossip.

I have seen teachers use gossip to get ahead as a way to make themselves look better than the other teachers. Not all schools are like this, but it is a prevalent trait and a pretty widespread part of our culture. Many art teachers like me are sensitive souls, that is why we teach art! This sensitivity is what catapults us into our bursts of inspiration in developing amazing art lessons and helping our students find joy in creative expression. However, it is the same sensitivity that makes negativity in the workplace feel extra difficult for us. But sensitive teachers have a special role to play. We can be more in tune with how to change the negative tendency towards criticism into a culture of encouragement. We can be shining examples of this and not allow gossip to spoil our passion for teaching and our desire to reach children.

I'm going to admit to something and be real with you all. I have come to such a low point this year that I considered quitting teaching altogether because of gossip. However, I have decided to do something else. From now on, in whatever school I teach in, I will be an ambassador of ending gossip! Next time a teacher tries to engage with me in gossip, I will calmly say I cannot partake in it and change the subject. I will be known as the person who does not gossip. I will also bring it up to the director if things get bad enough, in hopes of changing the school culture. I don't care how weird I will seem, but this I am sure, will have positive outcomes. The right thing always does.

To fellow art teachers or sensitive educators out there: no matter what people say about you at work, do what you love and let your light shine. As teachers, we are all unique and we each have something different to offer our students. If a teacher is saying negative things about you behind your back, chances are they are insecure about their own teaching and are trying to catapult their career forward in the least altruistic way possible. Keep being yourself and let yourself teach for the only reason that truly matters: educating children.